"How a person talks about their ex says as much, if not more, about the speaker than the person they're characterizing. What's interesting psychologically is that, based on the two-way nature of relationships and the messy complexity inherent in the interpretation of behaviors and the expression of emotions, it's typically problematic to apply total guilt or total innocence to just one member of the dyad. In many cases, suggesting that one member of a couple is all good and the other is all bad or "crazy" isn't a fair characterization of either member of a couple."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-is-2020/201911/why-you-should-be-wary-someone-who-calls-their-ex-crazy
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